Yes, every family has a crazy. Kitty WooWoo is mine. I've been trying to tame his down for awhile but if anything at all interferes with his routine, it's usually a major set back. He will come to me to pet but never relaxes the whole time I love him. But I just keep loving him. I'm sure Baby 2 will eventually give into the love. You show too much compassion for him not to fall under the influence!
His nose is better, it is filling in, but he did screw it up in the cage. He's better -- if I corner him in a room, he'll hiss and carry on, but seems to like being pet -- at least he stops shaking like a leaf after being pet for awhile. I think there's hope for him, but I'm changing my strategy from waiting for him to approach me to taking his hiding places away in the spare room once a day and spending at least 20 minutes petting him. I think he'll tame eventually.